I had had a couple of threesomes, and the guy I had the threesomes with moved away, said 56-year-old wife, mother and grandmother Ruby O'Connor from Arizona. "So he said, 'You need to join a swingers website,' and me and my husband did, and it was funny because the very first night we joined the website was a meet-and-greet and hotel takeover, so that was my introduction to the swinger lifestyle, and what was funny about that was I found out what a Sybian is.