I used to think I liked bad boys, but I've come to the realization that I like nice guys who have a freaky side, said Destiny Williams, a 45-year-old first-timer from what she calls "Lower, Slower Delaware" (she was born outside Philadelphia, Pennsylvania). "I want a guy who wants to tie me up, who likes it rough and who is confident with his sexuality and definitely someone who is not the jealous, controlling type."