SCORELAND: What kind of reaction do you get when you tell guys you're a sex researcher? Sabina Leigh: Most of them want me to have sex with them. They say I can use them for research. I feel bad about it, but I hear that so often there's just no way to fit all of them in, so usually I have to turn them down. There's only so much of me to go around. But I do like to talk to people and get their stories and advise them when I can.