One of the rules from the article "The Uncensored Guide To Lap Dancing" published at the SCORELAND Blog is, "The more explicit a dancer gets on stage, the better she is as a lap dancer. Chicks who are afraid to get down on the stage and spread their pussies and asses when the club allows it are not going to go the extra mile in the lap dance room. They're not going to take it as a point of personal pride to make you cum in your pants by grinding against your cock.